Bringing your new cat home is such an exciting moment! But remember, while you're falling in love with your new companion, they're adjusting to a whole new world.

I always want every kitten and retired cat to feel safe, loved, and truly at home. Here's my advice for making those first few days a little easier for you both.

A Little Advice From Helen

After years of raising kittens and caring for older cats, I've learned one very important thing: every cat is different, and trust takes time. Some will be curled up beside you in no time, while others need a little longer to feel safe. Both are perfectly okay!

I also highly recommend Jackson Galaxy, whose practical cat behaviour advice I regularly share with my families. His videos are a wonderful place to start before your new cat arrives.

• Give them time. Settling in can take days, weeks, or even months.

• Give them space. Let your cat explore and approach you when they're ready.

• Never force affection. Gentle patience builds trust far better than unwanted cuddles.

• Make good memories. Mealtimes, play, and a calm routine help your cat feel safe with you.

Even confident kittens can feel overwhelmed in a new home. Start with a quiet room, fresh food and water, a litter tray, a cosy bed, and somewhere to hide.

Let your kitten explore at their own pace. Sit nearby, speak gently, and use play to build a bond. If you have children, teach them to be calm and let the kitten come to them.

Watch Basecamp: The Secret to Your Cat's Happiness for more helpful tips.

Older cats may need more time to adjust to new surroundings and routines. Please don't worry if your cat hides or takes a while to become affectionate. It doesn't mean you've done anything wrong!

Give them a quiet space, keep their routine predictable, and let them come to you when they're ready. Celebrate the little things, because every small step towards trust matters.

It's tempting to let two cats meet straight away, but please don't rush this step! Cats need time to get used to each other's scents and presence.

Keep them in separate spaces at first, introduce them gradually, and never force them together. Hissing or growling means they need more space, not punishment.

I highly recommend Jackson Galaxy's guides to help you get started:

• How to Introduce Cats

• Introducing Your Cat to a New Kitten

• Jackson Galaxy's Full Introductions Playlist